Tuesday, March 8, 2016

youth confession

Female,


"Ma aaile australia maa chhu..7 years bhayo aako..2 years agadi samma mero bf India ma thiyo (aaile hami sangai chham). Long distance ma basda timilai prajwal k vanyo k garyo tyo vanda dherai worst thyo mero case. Mero ra usko photo haru (aru le herna namilne type ko) public ma haldinchu vanera dhamki dinthyo maile uslai maaf garos vanera.. but maile afno dignity ko kadar gardai usko kura matlab garina kinaki tha thyo malai usle malai maya garchha ra maya garne le testo garna sakdaina vanera..malai tha thyo maf gardios maile vanera strategy use gardai thyo. Long distance ma dherai dherai issues aauchha..tyo din dekhi maile uslai block gareko thie..karib 7 maina ma u sanga bolina..yo time maa maile afulai dherai samaley.. ani usko yaad aayo ..sochna thaley eti maya garthyo.. mero lagi k k matra gardaina thyo..j hos negative kura haru sabai lai side lagaera usko positive kura haru sochna thaley..hami ramako time haru yad garna thaley.. u pani bidesh ma thyo..india nai vaepanI ..nepal baira basda kasto garo hunchha jiwana gujara garna malai ramro sanga anubhav thyo..tei mathi usko family maa financial issues le garda saddai jhagda hunthyo..churot khana thakeko thyo re.. ek din sochey yedi ma kasailai maf gardinchhu..kasai ko heet ko lagi ma afno kei kura haru sacrifice gardinchu vane marney bela kamse kam ek jana lai maile esto gareko thie vanera san le marna sakthey natra jiwan var maile garda yo kta esto vo..u mareko din pani kati guilty feel huney thyo malai.. plus eti vaisakyo uu pani ta chetyo hola sochey.. dherai anyol pachi maile uslai message garey.. saat maina pachi message gareko Hi.. vanera usko reply ""I missed you"" aayo..""missed ?"" vane.. ""still missing"" vanyo.."" I miss you more.."" vane k chha kasto chaldai sodhey normal kura vayo .. man man sochirako thie ekpalta"" I'm sorry ""vanos vanera taki"" I forgive you "" vanna paios..maI suru ma ta kadapi vandina thie..eli ego ko problem vaera pani hola.
eksin ko guff pachi usle vanyo..hera ma ajai guilty chhu timle maf nagare samma ma kaile khusi vaera bachna sakdina vanyo.. maile turuntai reply garey..""umm it's okay ! Aba bata repeat nagara esto kura haru"" .. ali buj pachaye jasto gardai usle lekhyo.. ""wait.. does that mean we are back together"" .. ""kina man chhaina ho..arko kt pattyayu ? ""
""My love you are the best !"" vandai kati khusi thyo sunayo..tyo din dekhi churot pani banda vayo usko.
man manai sochey aru lai change garauna dherai garo chha..maile garda usley churot khana thaleko ..maile garda nai chodyo..ali katI cancer maile vardie pani aaba bata khadina vanepachhi ..khusi lagyo ..akhir kasaiko euta bani ta bigarina.
Tepachi hamro jhagda nahos..misunderstandings nahos vanera maile ra usle kei kura haru ko samjhauta garem..
1. happy waa sad news haru chha vane matra ek arkaa lai message garne.. fokat ma kura nagarne..pesonal time pani chainchha.
2. Family ko sabai kura haru share garne.
3. Kasaile kasai sanga kei kura ko demand nagarne ra expect pani nagarne
4. 1 maina maa kamsekam ek hapta chai nabolam.. ek arka lai miss garne time dim..eso garda mitho mitho kura hunchha maya ko ani jhagda kaam hunchha..
dubaI le sahamati janaem. Tyo din dekhi aaja samma 4 barsa vayo..2 years long distance mai bityo without any complications.
Sangai basna thalepachi ta jhan jhagda ko j pani hudaina..maya matra hunchha. So main kura vaneko kasailai forgive garna saknu pardo raichha chahey afulai kati time laagos..if he is worth it he will wait for you..if not move on vaisakyo uu ma ta jhan uiley vanera sochnu..maya jasto kura sabai sanga badera hinnu hudaina.. ek jana socheko thyo vane jasari pani tei ek jana sanga jiwan gujara garnu parchha..farak eti ho uslai kasari thik parne ra k lesson sikaune..chahey dui barsa lagos tata kta haru sudrinchhan sudrina chai tei vaera chance dinu parchha. Yo haina ki j jasto garepani chance dirakhne..limit ta vaihalchha ni.. physicall harassment nasahanu.. tara mukh mukhai or keyboard fights and distance le garda vaako issues haru chai fix garna sakinchha. smile emoticon .. So girls/boys don't let them go so easily for this too shall pass.

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